Have you ever wished the boy that you like will chase you? Are you tired of always being the one pursuing the guy? Do you find yourself jealous of other women who always have tons of guys chasing after them? If you are interested in a guy and you want to make him chase you, for a change, then you need to continue reading this article to get some ideas on how to accomplish this.
It is in our nature to do reap rewards through doing as little work as possible. It's not a matter of being lazy; it's simply a matter of required effort. You must give him a reason if you make to make him chase you. Men like a challenge and if they think they are going to get a reward at the end, they are going to try that much harder. So how can you do this?
Well, you must learn when to turn things on and when to turn things off.
Start out by giving him some space. If you area already spending a lot of time with him then you need to pull the reigns and slow things down a bit. This will make him want to see you more. If you spend too much time with him, he will start taking you for granted. You don't want him to think that you are running around on him or anything, so don't do things that will make him jealous. Still, start spending the bulk of your time elsewhere.
Now that you have given him the chance to miss you, you need to turn things up a notch. Do this by lavishing attention on him when the two of you are actually together. Try making the times when you're together exciting by introducing him to new things and new experiences. Show him a good time. He will associate these good feelings with being around you and that will make him want to be around you even more.
Don't change your plans when he starts to pursue you. If you already have something scheduled for that time, let him know and then pick another time. He will like the chase and the challenge and that will make him even more determined to be with you and to spend time with you. Soon, you will be able to make him chase you just by simply having a life of your own. By focusing a good portion of your attention on him, but not all of it, he will be dying to see you as often as he can.